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Kimmo Huosionmaa
This is the thing, what I would write also in the future. Cuckoo is the bird, what kills it stepsiblings. The thing happens because the cuckoo has sensitive point in it's back and when other chicks in the den would touch that point, will the cuckoo push them out from the den. This behavior has given the name for the effect, where one of the siblings kills family members. Sometimes we will face the news, where is told about domestic violence, where one member of the family has killed one or more members of the family, and this is of course very sad. But why somebody makes that thing?
Sometimes there is the tumor in the brain tissue, what causes violent behavior, but sometimes the reason is that this member of the family has been violated in the society. In this kind of cases, one member of the group would face the violation. When we are thinking about the cases, where only one member of the group has been targeted for the very bad domestic violation, we are facing the situation, where one time is too much, and then happens something very bad. But what kind of person violates family member even years?
This kind of things are happening, because the violation and humiliation were accepted by the authorities of that society. The society makes the situation, where the hate can grow inside the mind of that person. In many religious isolated groups have been behavior, that if the patriarchs of the community would be resisted, the punishment would be an assault against that person. In those societies, the patriarch would not use violence by himself.
There is a mark, what other follow, and it could be that the patriarch would turn the back for the person, who was marked for abuse. And then the other members of the group would attack that targeted person. In some families, this mark is the phrase "when daddy comes home". That means that some person would get the punishment. And then the mother of the family would leave the belt to the chair, what means she asks punishment.
This kind of punishment is a very bad thing because children would stop to fear that violation. They would move to the streets, and that will cause bad things in the society. Sometimes there are people, who have taken part in the assaulting the siblings because their parents ordered that. Or they gave permission to play "adult" for one of the family members. And that is seen in their behavior. They always ask their henchmen giving "open hand" for the children, who call to the workplace or otherwise disturb the workday of adult persons.
For those persons, the adulthood means only right to give punishments. They have always right to order other persons to do anything, that they want, and those men and women would do anything. If they even have to open the door by themselves if there is found some henchmen, that is the great insult for that person and authority of that man or woman. But how somebody become the person, who would always give only punishments, is the question, what is the very interesting thing. One of the answers is normally, that they would face the violence in the younghood, but that is not actually true. Persons who have faced the violation in their childhood normally would not accept the violence against children.
The reason why physical punishment in the home is prohibited is the "Lucifer effect", because if the person would be someday in the same position, what the violator has been, would that cause that this person would act same way against the helpless persons. The effect is caused because somebody has been violated that man or woman, and then when this person has got the same position as the violator has, that would cause the change to revenge the treatment. But this kind of violence is targeted for the elder people, and it happens in old people's home.
In the human mind is the system, what is built for protecting our species, and that is that the form of children normally makes the person act a nonviolent way. And the reason, what causes the "Lucifer-effect" is hate against the persons, who have humiliated that man or woman. And that causes sometimes very traumatic behavior, what would bring sad headlines in the newspapers. When the person knows, that there would become the punishment anyway, does he or she the things, what normal people would not even think to do.
One of the examples in history is when the prisoners of the Treblinka death camp started the rebel and took the weapons from the hands of their guards without thinking about their own safety. The reason was, that those persons knew, that they would die anyway, and that was the reason, why they attacked the guards, and only three of them survived. But this is an example, what desperate persons would get.
The violence against children is something, what we never understand. But sometimes we are looking that thing from the newspaper, and then we must remember, that those persons, who would make the things, what are causing the death for the children have sometimes thought that they have done right things. Somewhere those persons have learned to shake the children if they are noisy. And that could be very dangerous. Domestic violation is the very traumatic thing, what leaves the marks for the victimized person rest of the life. That thing makes more violence in the streets and keeps police in the work.
